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      <image:caption>Every essay features a section called “One Fine Microjoy” – an experience, place, or thing that brings me joy, grace, and hope amidst life’s ups and downs. I hope it invites you to recognize and appreciate the delights that ground, inspire, and enrich our journey.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Every essay features a section called “One Fine Microjoy” – an experience, place, or thing that brings me joy, grace, and hope amidst life’s ups and downs. I hope it invites you to recognize and appreciate the delights that ground, inspire, and enrich our journey.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Meet Shirley, the Pothead.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Every essay features a section called “One Fine Microjoy” – an experience, place, or thing that brings me joy, grace, and hope amidst life’s ups and downs. I hope it invites you to recognize and appreciate the delights that ground, inspire, and enrich our journey.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>JMC 12/75 (signature on back): Thanks for the microjoy.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>I got ‘em from my mama. #Freckleface</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Every essay features a section called “One Fine Microjoy” – an experience, place, or thing that brings me joy, grace, and hope amidst life’s ups and downs. I hope it invites you to recognize and appreciate the delights that ground, inspire, and enrich our journey.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Our usual pink tree is gold this year!</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Every essay features a section called “One Fine Microjoy” – an experience, place, or thing that brings me joy, grace, and hope amidst life’s ups and downs. I hope it invites you to recognize and appreciate the delights that ground, inspire, and enrich our journey.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>This was the comment left on a beauty magazine’s Instagram post (today) about the Jello Red nail polish trend. They posted about polish and this was the response from a reader. Really?! (Ignore their spelling error.)</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>My first day training outfit. Pink, obviously.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>A photo I took in D.C. at the Women’s March in 2017</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - v.35 What Fashion Taught Me About Surviving America Right Now - Make it stand out</image:title>
      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Me and my hot (literally) husband in Cinque Terre.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - v.33 Your Worth Isn’t Measured in What You Carry for Other People - Make it stand out</image:title>
      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - v.31 You Ain’t Original (And Other Things We Don't Want To Hear) - Make it stand out</image:title>
      <image:caption>Picture by the gorgeous @KristenLoken</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - v.31 You Ain’t Original (And Other Things We Don't Want To Hear) - Make it stand out</image:title>
      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - v.31 You Ain’t Original (And Other Things We Don't Want To Hear) - Make it stand out</image:title>
      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>mama and me, 16 days before.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - v. 29 The Great Cellulite Spiral: A Love-Hate Letter to Aging, Insecurity, and Perspective</image:title>
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      <image:title>Blog - v. 29 The Great Cellulite Spiral: A Love-Hate Letter to Aging, Insecurity, and Perspective</image:title>
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      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - v. 28 Should You Stay or Should You Go? Discernment, Boundaries and Microjoys - Make it stand out</image:title>
      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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    <lastmod>2025-05-15</lastmod>
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      <image:title>Blog - v.27 Petty People, Judgy Friends, and One Long Marble Bar - Make it stand out</image:title>
      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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    <loc>https://www.cyndiespiegel.com/blog/feast-famine-and-the-mindfck-of-creative-entrepreneurship-the-emotional-cost-of-working-for-yourself</loc>
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      <image:title>Blog - v.26 Feast, Famine, and the Mindf*ck of Creative Entrepreneurship: The Emotional Cost of Working for Yourself - Make it stand out</image:title>
      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - v.24 There Is No Legitimacy Committee: The Myth of Being ‘Real’ Enough - Make it stand out</image:title>
      <image:caption>Just a few of the translations of my books. And no, I have no idea how a blonde white woman ended up on the cover of one of my translated books.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - v.23 The Exhausting Game of Being 'Nice': Why Can’t We Just Say What We Mean? - Make it stand out</image:title>
      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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    <loc>https://www.cyndiespiegel.com/blog/the-unseen-threads-of-belonging-do-you-really-need-that-extra-kidney</loc>
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      <image:title>Blog - v. 22 The Unseen Threads of Belonging: Do You Really Need That Extra Kidney? - Make it stand out</image:title>
      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Every essay features a section called “One Fine Microjoy” – an experience, place, or thing that brings me joy, grace, and hope amidst life’s ups and downs. I hope it invites you to recognize and appreciate the delights that ground, inspire, and enrich our journey.</image:caption>
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    <lastmod>2025-04-02</lastmod>
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      <image:caption>Every essay will feature a section called “One Fine Microjoy” – an experience, place, or thing that brings me joy, grace, and hope amidst life’s ups and downs. I hope it invites you to recognize and appreciate the delights that ground, inspire, and enrich our journey.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Today’s microjoy: local bookstores and community. Moving to a small, artsy town like Montclair (New Jersey) has been such a gift.  When  Microjoys came out in 2023, Watchung Booksellers welcomed me with open arms—they hosted my book launch event, connected me with local authors, and months later, invited me as a guest on their podcast (fittingly called The Watchung Booksellers Podcast). Montclair is a real-deal literary haven brimming with writers, journalists, publishers, and avid readers, and being part of this bookish community has been an absolute joy.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - v.9 Unfriended in Real Life: The Emotional Toll of Losing a Long-Term Friendship - Make it stand out</image:title>
      <image:caption>Every essay will feature a section called “One Fine Microjoy” – an experience, place, or thing that brings me joy, grace, and hope amidst life’s ups and downs. I hope it invites you to recognize and appreciate the delights that ground, inspire, and enrich our journey.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>I love children’s books; the simple but sophisticated artwork and bright colors make my day. And the topics that touch us at our core with so few words —well, it feels like some kind of sorcery to me. I recently picked up this book at one of my fave local bookstores and I’m pretty sure I skipped out of the shop with my new book in tow.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Every essay will feature a section called “One Fine Microjoy” – an experience, place, or thing that brings me joy, grace, and hope amidst life’s ups and downs. I hope it invites you to recognize and appreciate the delights that ground, inspire, and enrich our journey.</image:caption>
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    <lastmod>2025-04-02</lastmod>
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      <image:caption>Every essay will feature a section called “One Fine Microjoy” – an experience, place, or thing that brings me joy, grace, and hope amidst life’s ups and downs. I hope it invites you to recognize and appreciate the delights that ground, inspire, and enrich our journey.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Mom and I cicra 2015: In all her wisdom and unapologetic cuss words—she taught me life’s truths without a filter. Her kitchen was a sanctuary, her voice a compass and her laughter a balm. Even in her imperfections, she held a love for her children and grandchildren so fierce that— it still lingers in the air.</image:caption>
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    <lastmod>2025-04-02</lastmod>
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      <image:caption>A little round magic pill.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Every essay will feature a section called “One Fine Microjoy” – an experience, place, or thing that brings me joy, grace, and hope amidst life’s ups and downs. I hope it invites you to recognize and appreciate the delights that ground, inspire, and enrich our journey.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Today’s microjoy: a simple pleasure as timeless as it is refreshing—warm water with a few slices of lemon and a hint of mint. It’s delightfully low-key yet oddly fancy. Sip, smile, repeat. (Also, very good for digestion when you start off with this before your first cup of coffee.)</image:caption>
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    <loc>https://www.cyndiespiegel.com/blog/a-stranger-at-union-station</loc>
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    <lastmod>2025-04-02</lastmod>
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      <image:title>Blog - v.5 On Connection: A Stranger At Union Station *a must-read, feel good essay* - Make it stand out</image:title>
      <image:caption>A gorgeous tree canopy at Grounds For Sculpture in Hamilton, NJ that shared the same energy as this encounter in D.C.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - v.5 On Connection: A Stranger At Union Station *a must-read, feel good essay* - Make it stand out</image:title>
      <image:caption>Every essay will feature a section called “One Fine Microjoy” – an experience, place, or thing that brings me joy, grace, and hope amidst life’s ups and downs. I hope it invites you to recognize and appreciate the delights that ground, inspire, and enrich our journey.</image:caption>
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    <loc>https://www.cyndiespiegel.com/blog/child-free-awkardness</loc>
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    <lastmod>2025-04-02</lastmod>
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      <image:title>Blog - v.4 Not Exactly ‘Emily in Paris’: Child-Free and the Awkwardness of Belonging in the ‘Burbs - Make it stand out</image:title>
      <image:caption>In a gown— for no reason at all. I’m kidding. Though. I highly recommend that you try it if you feel compelled!</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - v.4 Not Exactly ‘Emily in Paris’: Child-Free and the Awkwardness of Belonging in the ‘Burbs - Make it stand out</image:title>
      <image:caption>Every essay will feature a section called “One Fine Microjoy” – an experience, place, or thing that brings me joy, grace, and hope amidst life’s ups and downs. I hope it invites you to recognize and appreciate the delights that ground, inspire, and enrich our journey.</image:caption>
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    <loc>https://www.cyndiespiegel.com/blog/all-the-living-things-dhxbj</loc>
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    <lastmod>2025-04-02</lastmod>
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      <image:caption>The perfect little reading corner (Jake’s beloved shearling throw is not in the picture.)</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Some posts will feature “One Fine Microjoy” – an experience, place, or thing that brings me joy, grace, and hope amidst life’s ups and downs. I hope it invites you to recognize and appreciate the delights that ground, inspire, and enrich our journey.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Me, starting, while upstate at a friend’s recent writing retreat</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Some posts will feature “One Fine Microjoy” – an experience, place, or thing that brings me joy, grace, and hope amidst life’s ups and downs. I hope it invites you to recognize and appreciate the delights that ground, inspire, and enrich our journey.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Let’s discuss these Dansko clogs: the ultimate leap from “fashion over function” to “fashion and function.” There’s a special kind of swagger in wearing shoes that say both “I’m cool as fuck” and “I might steal your Werther’s Original” (it’s a vibe, trust me). These let me walk around all day without sacrificing style. They pair brilliantly with low slung barrel-shaped pants, and a gorgeously oversized cashmere sweater. (Ira just bought me this one for my upcoming birthday. But I’ve digressed. Again.) And yes, choosing comfort is downright rebellious—it’s the freedom to walk like you mean it, and prove once and for all —that sensible can also be very chic.</image:caption>
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    <lastmod>2025-03-26</lastmod>
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      <image:caption>Unedited photo taken by Ira, my cute husband— in our garage. Generally, you’d see the background fully dropped out but hell…this is what it really looks like.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Every essay will feature a section called “One Fine Microjoy” – an experience, place, or thing that brings me joy, grace, and hope amidst life’s ups and downs. I hope it invites you to recognize and appreciate the delights that ground, inspire, and enrich our journey.</image:caption>
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